Stop Faking Culture

Stop Faking Culture

Why Your Pizza Parties Aren’t Fixing Anything

Companies want to create a thriving culture, and they know engaged employees are the key to success. They pour time and money into social events, hoping to build connections and boost morale. But no amount of pizza parties or team outings can fix poor leadership, disorganized workflows, or a lack of purpose. So instead of distracting employees with fleeting fun, organizations should focus on the foundation of real culture: trust, clarity, and meaningful execution. That’s where the magic happens—and where true engagement takes root.


The Problem with Social Event Culture

Social events often fail to create meaningful connections, especially in workplaces with diverse personalities. For every extrovert who thrives on mingling, there’s an introvert quietly dreading the event, counting the minutes until it’s over. Worse, these activities frequently cut into work hours—when deadlines loom—or personal time, which employees cherish for family, hobbies, or rest.

So here’s the question: has anyone ever stayed in a job with a poor manager, unclear processes, and chaotic execution because of a great pizza party? Probably not.

Yet companies continue investing time, money, and energy into events that provide only fleeting fun. Instead of improving culture, these initiatives often frustrate employees and erode trust by signaling misplaced priorities.


What Is Culture, Really?

To build culture, it helps to understand what culture actually is. Let’s consider one definition:

The set of shared attitudes, values, goals, and practices that characterizes an organization.

Notice what’s missing from this definition? Pizza. Karaoke. Escape rooms.

What defines culture isn’t what happens during breaks or after work. It’s how the work gets done. Culture is the day-to-day rhythm of shared goals, collaboration, and execution. It’s the trust built when teams deliver on their commitments. It’s the alignment to a strategy that inspires and unites.

In short, culture lives in the systems, processes, and habits that define work—not in the events intended to distract from it.


The Link Between Execution and Culture

Execution drives culture because how work gets done reflects an organization’s values and priorities. Organizations with poor culture often show symptoms of poor execution, such as:

  • Disorganization: No clear processes or priorities.
  • Misalignment: Work doesn’t support the company’s strategy.
  • Lack of Purpose: Employees don’t understand why their work matters.
  • Distrust: Teams operate in silos, or promises go unfulfilled.
  • No Measurement: Progress and results aren’t tracked, so accountability falters.

 

On the other hand, strong execution fosters a thriving culture by ensuring:

  • Trust: Teams deliver on commitments and collaborate openly.
  • Shared Values: Everyone aligns to a common purpose.
  • Clarity: People understand how their work contributes to the organization’s goals.
  • Strategy-Driven Work: Effort aligns with measurable business objectives.
  • Accountability: Progress and success are tracked and celebrated.


A Framework for Cultural Excellence

Organizations should focus on building frameworks that align people, processes, and technology to support a shared true north. When employees have a clear sense of direction and a repeatable system to measure progress, they’re more likely to feel engaged and motivated.

Instead of investing in fleeting gestures, invest in frameworks that:

  1. Define a compelling vision and strategy.
  2. Align all work processes with that vision.
  3. Create transparent systems to measure and celebrate progress.
  4. Foster trust and collaboration by delivering on commitments.

 

When execution becomes the focus, culture improves as a natural by-product. Employees find pride and purpose in meaningful work, not in how many pizzas are ordered for the next social.


A Call to Action

It’s time for companies to stop chasing culture through superficial activities. Real culture doesn’t come from gimmicks; it comes from how work is done every day. Focus on execution. Build trust. Align efforts to a shared vision. That’s how you build a workplace people want to stay in—and a culture that delivers value to everyone it touches.

Would you rather host a pizza party—or build an organization that inspires pride?